An Online Space to Practice the Art of Intimacy, Connection and the Facilitation of Heart iQ.

The Heart iQ Intimacy Dojo is a place to receive guidance and coaching in many of the critical areas that impacts relationship health:

  •  Self-Intimacy & Embodiment - deepen your self-love & further integrate your trauma.

  • How to Relate with an Open Heart & Communicate Consciously - navigate your triggers and resolve conflict with grace.

  • Men & Women's breakouts - learn how to build trustworthy connection with brothers and sisters to have specific needs met.  

  • Do your inner and relational work in connection with others in tribe & community. This is often a missing link in relationships as we seek to offer a new imprint of a new normal, where it takes a village to raise a child and sustain healthy relationships.


Expect to be taken on a journey of discovery and offered practical ways to deepen your intimacy and upgrade your relationships.

The Intimacy Dojo

3 x Monthly online workshops

Self-intimacy & embodiment

Men & woman's breakouts

Relationship coaching

Open circle, Q&A & debriefs

Facilitated by Christian & Team

Event Library & Replays

Online Private Community

Each monthly Intimacy Dojo lasts for 5 hours (2 x 2 hour sessions with an hour break in the middle) and is hosted on a Sunday evening for those in Europe and Sunday morning for those in the USA & Canada.  

Upcoming Intimacy Dojo's:


Oct. 3rd at 4pm Europe, 10am Eastern

Oct. 31st at 4pm Europe, 11am Eastern

Nov. 28th at 4pm Europe, 10am Eastern

$185 for 3 months access

ONLY 50 Seats Available

The Facilitator Dojo

Access to the Intimacy Dojo PLUS:

Monthly Facilitator Training Workshop

Relationship Lab case studies

Group Facilitation & Circle practice

Professional Q&A & debriefs

Access to online Facilitator Training

Replay Access

Online Private Community

Each additional Facilitator Dojo lasts for 3 hours (2 x 75 minute sessions with a 30 min break in the middle) and is hosted on a Sunday evening for those in Europe and Sunday morning for those in North America.

Upcoming Facilitator Dojo's:


Oct. 17th at 6pm Europe, 12pm Eastern

Nov, 14th at 6pm Europe, 12pm Eastern

Dec. 12th at 6pm Europe, 12pm Eastern

$365 for 3 months access

ONLY 50 Seats Available

HEADS UP: The Facilitator Dojo INCLUDES access to the Intimacy Dojo, so you don't need to register for both.

Meet the Team

Christian Pankhurst

Christian is the founder of Heart iQ and author of 'Insights to Intimacy' - Why Relationships Fail and How to Make Them Work. He is a world-leading authority on heart-centered communication and heart intelligent relationships. Christian is the co-founder of New Eden, a community and retreat centre where the work is put into practice with others in conscious community.

Sumir Brown

Sumir is the founder of Feminine Rising and co-founder of New Eden Retreat Center located in the Netherlands. She is an international relationship coach; supporting women, men and couples in their journey of creating emotionally hygienic, heart intelligent and devotional love.

Sylvie Fröhlicher

Sylvie is a circle facilitator, embodiment teacher and Self-leadership coach based in Zurich, Switzerland. Dedicated to discovering and navigating inner worlds with loving curiosity, dropping into the body’s wisdom, and creating safe spaces for unheard voices. Passionate about empowering women to stand boldly and vulnerably in authentic expression.

Paulina Bolek

Voice-Medicine Woman, Singer-Songwriter, Embodiment and (Self-) Intimacy Guide, Women's Circle Facilitator. Devoted to the path of the Heart, consciously embracing the fullness of her humanity as a woman and mother.

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  • Preferred option
    Intimacy Dojo: 3 Months Access$185.00/qtr
  • Preferred option
    Intimacy Dojo + Facilitator Dojo: 3 Months Access$365.00/qtr

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